Those who know my girl, know that she is very social and vocal. She loves people, and she loves to talk. For the most part she is well mannered, sweet, and kind. She shows genuine interest in what others are doing, and how they are feeling. It is a great great trait of hers and we love watching it develop as she matures.
However she is three. And a three year old chatterbox like herself is usually missing something.
A filter. And restraint.
In the past few weeks we have encountered some awkward, and potentially embarrassing moments. These are some examples of her free flowing statements.
To Andy during a hug. "Andy- you smell!"
To 93 year old Grandma Dilly." What is wrong with your face? It has lots of lines. yuck."
To mama." Ewww- you have coffee breath" and on another occasion, "You have a BIG Belly."
To Jessica. " Your van is so dirty. Why?"
To Tia Michelle." Your leg stinks."
Please don't take it personally. Like I said before she is three. Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names should never hurt me. Right? I am already bracing myself for future comments in public places, perhaps to strangers. And we are actively teaching her what is nice to say and what is not- so in the meantime, if you happen upon a very truthful and open girl- know that her filter is being sought after!
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Missing Filter
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4 comments:
hey thanks for the encouragement the other day! You're a blessing to us.
A & H
Yes, the sought-after filter. This is truly a challenge! ;) On the other hand, isn´t it great that they can just say what they REALLY think?
Oh Cari, don't I know all about this!
Ava is infected with the same friendly tongue and the not so friendly tongue. My favorite is when she asks adults if they are a "boy or a girl." It's great!
Tell Gabriella that I love her just as much, even if she thinks my pants stink and that I have a big butt!
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